{"id":4717,"date":"2025-11-26T05:20:00","date_gmt":"2025-11-26T05:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/velkeholky.org\/?p=4717"},"modified":"2025-11-09T21:42:51","modified_gmt":"2025-11-09T21:42:51","slug":"boty-co-nas-netlaci-aneb-pro-koho-je-ta-moda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/velkeholky.org\/en\/boty-co-nas-netlaci-aneb-pro-koho-je-ta-moda\/","title":{"rendered":"Shoes that don't weigh us down - or who is this fashion for?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Why do manufacturers still think we're all Cinderellas?<\/strong>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This is a problem!<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

I'll be honest - I have a foot that has been operated on. Quite wide. And you know what? I'm not alone in THIS. After having children, my feet have widened so much that I can barely fit my toe into half of those beautiful shoes I see in the shop windows. And I'm not fat. I'm not sick. I just have a normal, functional, real woman's foot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that's exactly the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The fashion industry still lives under the illusion that all women have legs like models from a catwalk show. Narrow, slim, almost non-existent. But the reality? It's completely different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you become a "special case"\u201e<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

I remember the first time I tried on my favorite pumps after giving birth. They just didn't fit. COPA? I thought. Haven't I lost weight yet? But the problem wasn't the pounds. The problem was that my foot had changed \u2013 it had widened, my instep had lifted, the whole foot was just... different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And suddenly I found myself in a category that no one wants to talk about: the category of women who need wider shoes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sounds like a detail, doesn't it? Well, it's NOT! Because from that moment on, every shoe purchase was a huge frustration. Most "beautiful" shoes? Forget it. They're made for narrow feet, as if nothing should change after giving birth. As if we were still seventeen and had tiny girlish feet... and I know girls whose feet even got bigger! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The myth of "just buy a bigger size"\u201e<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

I've heard this a million times. "Just buy a size bigger, right?"\u201e<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NO. Not exactly.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because a bigger number means a longer shoe. But I don't need a longer one, I need a wider one. I need a different width of cut \u2013 a G, H, or even a K. And this is where hell begins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because these markings? They're rare as saffron. Most brands simply don't bother using them. And if they do, it's in small print somewhere or nowhere at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a very basic thing: The leg is not only long. The leg is also wide.<\/strong><\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

And if you have a wide foot and you stuff it into a narrow shoe? Then it squeezes me. It rubs. It deforms my toes. It causes bunions. And after a few hours of walking, you walk like you're on a knife's edge - the little mermaid rag! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What a foot actually needs (and no, it's not a pink ribbon)<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

I'm not an orthopedist, but I've learned a few things over the years. And honestly, if someone had told me this sooner, I would have saved myself a lot of money and pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First: Round toe.<\/strong> Yeah, I know, it looks "less elegant". But you know what looks even less elegant? When after two hours of pain you can't walk anymore and you're limping like you've run a marathon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A round toe gives your toes room. It doesn't squeeze them in, it doesn't deform them. And what if you have a round toe made of soft leather or stretch material? It's like the difference between prison and freedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Second: Material.<\/strong> Natural leather is your friend. It stretches, adapts to your foot. Leather breathes, it forgives. Plastic? It doesn't forgive anything. And we don't want nasty plastic - it makes your feet stink!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Third: Width.<\/strong> This is the key thing. Look for brands that list widths \u2013 G (regular), H (wide), K (extra wide). Yes, it\u2019s like looking for a needle in a haystack. But they do exist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rieker. Jana. Caprice. Joseph Seibel.<\/a> Berkemann. PodoWell.<\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

These are the brands that think about it. And you can filter directly on the e-shops. FINALLY.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Close-up<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Heels? Only if I really have to... and not even that now!<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, after fifty I don't have time for stupid things anymore. If I wanted a heel, then a low, stable one, preferably a block or wedge. And do you know why? Because comfort, stability, support...<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now after the surgery I can't wear heels anymore! So completely flat shoes \u2013 loafers, ballerinas, sneakers \u2013 made of soft leather? That's my foundation. I can function in that all day. I feel comfortable and satisfied in that \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I just wish manufacturers could make elegant shoes in my width!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Special hell: high instep and wide calf<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Now, I'll take a little personal digression. My daughter has wide calves. No, she's not fat. She just has genetically wider calves - the muscles, the build, that's just how she is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And you know what? He CANNOT zip up most boots. Not even over nylons. Not even when he tries!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because the fashion industry makes boots for doe. For magazine girls. Not for real women, who they dance, they run, they box, they play sports<\/a> they live<\/strong> normal life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, all boots are loose for me \u2013 even jeans fit in them. But I understand the frustration. Seeing those beautiful high boots and knowing that they just don't fit. That you're not "right". That you're not narrow enough.<\/strong> You're not ready-made enough!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I'M NOT GIVING THAT.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A similar principle applies to high insteps \u2013 you need a deeper shoe, ideally with lacing or Velcro. So you can loosen it up, adjust it. And for a wide calf? Look for the marking VARIO<\/strong> or elastic rubber insert.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, it exists. But not much!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why am I even writing this? Because I'm angry.<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

You know what annoys me the most? That we have the strongest purchasing power in the market.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women 50+. Us. We have a paid off mortgage. Grown children. Stable income. Money for quality. And most importantly \u2013 we know what we want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We want comfort. And most importantly, quality. Also, so that it lasts us for years, not just one season.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And we are willing to pay for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

YES women 50+ have the strongest purchasing power!!! <\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

And yet? Yet the fashion industry systematically ignores us.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The range of "wide" shoes is either atrocious or non-existent. Oxfords, lords, ballerinas, loafers - all styles that would ENCOURAGE a wider fit. Which would be totally appropriate for that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But no. They'd rather make them so narrow that you can only fit in them if you have legs like Cinderella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Can You Do?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Look, I'm not naive. I don't believe that the entire fashion industry is going to suddenly change just because a computer girl complains on the internet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I can tell you what I do:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. I'm not looking where it's not.<\/strong> I'll forget about Zara, H&M and other chains. I just can't find it there. I'm looking for brands that DO it - my favorites are Reiker, Josef Seibel, Berkemann<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. I use filters.<\/strong> In e-shops. Width H. Width K. Removable insole. Natural leather. These are my keywords.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. I prefer otherwise.<\/strong> Shoes are not about looking "wow". Shoes are about wearing me for the next twenty years - preferably 30\ud83d\ude0b To give me energy and comfort, not to take it away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. And most importantly \u2013 no compromise on health.<\/strong> Appearance? Yes, very important. But only in fourth place. Behind comfort, quality and the right fit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It's not about giving up elegance. It's about stopping believing that elegance has to hurt.<\/h4><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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A conclusion that is not a happy ending...<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n

This is not an article with a motivational ending like "and then I found the PERFECT shoes and everything changed".<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unfortunately NO!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The reality is that finding comfortable yet pretty shoes is still a real struggle. That I have to approach it proactively, smartly, with the patience of a huntress. And yes, I still long for those Cinderella slippers\u2026 but I\u2019m not stupid enough to buy them anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But you know what? It's no longer a struggle that I feel guilty about. I no longer think the problem is me. The problem is the industry that ignores basic anatomy while wanting our money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And maybe if we say loudly enough that we simply don't want this anymore, that we don't want to choose between comfort and aesthetics - maybe something will start to change.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because honestly? We're not Cinderellas. And we don't want to be. We just want shoes that don't weigh us down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

PS: If you have any tips for other shoes, gadgets or brands,<\/em> who do it well, write to me. I'll be happy to share. We're in this together.<\/em><\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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When are we old? Age is just a number, I say!<\/a><\/blockquote>